Married or long term relationship sex.....
From the dry patches to the extremely wet ones.
Sex has its ups and downs.
From a couple who would give rabbits a run for their money, having two young children put a bit of a spin on things and there were a few desert like stretches.....don't give up.
There is no easy or instant way to make a relationship work; romance, intimacy and sex are all part of it. Once the 'honeymoon' has faded into a sweet distant memory the real work must commence. It is at this point the 'real' love begins.
I have lay and taken it when I haven't felt like it as has my husband; he has let me have my way when he hasn't been in the mood. Denying your partner sex will not do anything but cause bad feeling and resentment. I do not condone violence or any type of abuse in any relationship but a mutual respect and understanding of individual needs and desires. I jokingly refer to these times as his "fanny wank" and my using my "human dildo".
If your "sore head" or being "to tired" are a regular issue (applying to either sex) you need to address this ASAP. Unless you entered a relationship with the understanding and honesty that you were not into sex you have sold a false package.
If you don't find your other half physically and mentally attractive that is another issue......please be honest if this is the case...don't stand back and allow your other half to become overweight; encourage them to have interests. Its a partnership, constructive feedback and constructive criticism are essential for progression and growth.
( P.S. Fanny = pussy/vagina)
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