I am beyond frustrated at times.
It feels to me like my hubby comes in from work and lords it up. He works hard and cycles to and from work every day. I respect him for that; providing for his family as best he can on a minimum wage.
Most of the clothes I wear are hand me downs from a friend who has a good job and shops in White Stuff and Fat Face. Even though they are all 1-2 sizes bigger than I am, I can not complain; if it weren't for her I wouldn't have new clothes.
I'm running around until at least 10pm most nights feeling very hard done by, a martyr of my own cause. Cleaning up after my little family; none of whom know what a bin is for, how to hang up a wet towel or put their clothes away in any fashion.
On a positive note I hope to be back in the working world soon since completing my first 'heavy' course since having my girls. What a shock to the system that was! Studying and running a home is challenging. HIGH FIVE to anyone who does a course longer than a year when they are a parent.
Roll on more money coming in to the home.
Thursday, 28 May 2015
Monday, 25 May 2015
The "S" word
Married or long term relationship sex.....
From the dry patches to the extremely wet ones.
Sex has its ups and downs.
From a couple who would give rabbits a run for their money, having two young children put a bit of a spin on things and there were a few desert like stretches.....don't give up.
There is no easy or instant way to make a relationship work; romance, intimacy and sex are all part of it. Once the 'honeymoon' has faded into a sweet distant memory the real work must commence. It is at this point the 'real' love begins.
I have lay and taken it when I haven't felt like it as has my husband; he has let me have my way when he hasn't been in the mood. Denying your partner sex will not do anything but cause bad feeling and resentment. I do not condone violence or any type of abuse in any relationship but a mutual respect and understanding of individual needs and desires. I jokingly refer to these times as his "fanny wank" and my using my "human dildo".
If your "sore head" or being "to tired" are a regular issue (applying to either sex) you need to address this ASAP. Unless you entered a relationship with the understanding and honesty that you were not into sex you have sold a false package.
If you don't find your other half physically and mentally attractive that is another issue......please be honest if this is the case...don't stand back and allow your other half to become overweight; encourage them to have interests. Its a partnership, constructive feedback and constructive criticism are essential for progression and growth.
( P.S. Fanny = pussy/vagina)
From the dry patches to the extremely wet ones.
Sex has its ups and downs.
From a couple who would give rabbits a run for their money, having two young children put a bit of a spin on things and there were a few desert like stretches.....don't give up.
There is no easy or instant way to make a relationship work; romance, intimacy and sex are all part of it. Once the 'honeymoon' has faded into a sweet distant memory the real work must commence. It is at this point the 'real' love begins.
I have lay and taken it when I haven't felt like it as has my husband; he has let me have my way when he hasn't been in the mood. Denying your partner sex will not do anything but cause bad feeling and resentment. I do not condone violence or any type of abuse in any relationship but a mutual respect and understanding of individual needs and desires. I jokingly refer to these times as his "fanny wank" and my using my "human dildo".
If your "sore head" or being "to tired" are a regular issue (applying to either sex) you need to address this ASAP. Unless you entered a relationship with the understanding and honesty that you were not into sex you have sold a false package.
If you don't find your other half physically and mentally attractive that is another issue......please be honest if this is the case...don't stand back and allow your other half to become overweight; encourage them to have interests. Its a partnership, constructive feedback and constructive criticism are essential for progression and growth.
( P.S. Fanny = pussy/vagina)
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